Sunday, February 17, 2019

The Practice of Being #blessed


sermon preached at Church of the Good Shepherd, Federal Way, WA
by the Rev. Josh Hosler, Rector
The Sixth Sunday after the Epiphany, February 17, 2019

Instagram: it’s a scrolling set of photos that we 21st-century humans put on the internet to try to impress one another. Good Shepherd is on Instagram, and Nicholas Johnson and I have been posting occasional photos of good things happening in the life of our congregation.

On Instagram, you can tag any photo you like with what’s called a hashtag. The other day I searched for the hashtag “blessed.” Instagram displays over 100million photos marked “blessed.” As I looked down the page, I couldn’t help but notice how happy all these people look. And attractive. And well off. They’re showing off tight abs at the gym. They’re vacationing in beautiful places. They’re the parents of shiny happy children. Indeed, “blessed” seems to be, in Instagram-speak, the most common descriptor for people who appear to have life all figured out—at least for the moment of that snapshot.

We use “blessed” a lot in everyday conversation. Tragedy narrowly misses us and we comment, “God sure has blessed me!” We inherit a huge windfall and say, “Well, that was a blessing!” We gather our whole family together for a big Thanksgiving meal with all the trimmings, or we go on an international cruise with our loved ones, and we say, “I sure am blessed.” We live a stylish life spent with loyal friends and fun times in beautiful places, and we Instagram it: “hashtag-blessed.”

Well, Jesus put it best, didn’t he? “Blessed are the rich … blessed are the well fed … blessed are the cheerful … blessed are those everyone looks up to.”

Except he didn’t say any of those things. As you just heard, Jesus says precisely the opposite.

Blessed are those who beg for change or sleep on church floors. Blessed are those whose weekend bellies look forward to their taxpayer-funded school lunches. Blessed are those whose spouses have died and left them alone. Blessed are those who have been kidnapped at the American border … and their parents. Blessed are those who shoulder up their burdens on aching backs for another day of hard labor when they’d always hoped to be retired by now. Blessed are those who are assaulted because of their clothing or skin color. Blessed are those whose businesses fail because a big snowstorm damaged their property, drove away customers, and tipped them over the edge into insolvency.

And what about those who are enjoying that Thanksgiving dinner with all their relatives gathered around? Those who live in big houses with views of the water? Those who socked away a lot of money early on and now have lots of options? Those who are greatly admired in their communities for all the good work they have done?

Woe to them, says Jesus. Woe to them!

(Hey, look, I don’t make this stuff up. Jesus said it, and we claim to follow him. I’m just here to relay what the man says. What do you want? And I’m in the same boat with you. What gives, Jesus?)

Well, first off, and this is important: I know people who fit into both categories: those Jesus says are blessed, and those Jesus says “woe” to. Chances are you have identified with both categories simultaneously and may even do so this morning. The world isn’t cleanly bisected into the “blessed” and the “cursed,” any more than there’s such a thing as “good guys” and “bad guys.” Even when Jesus talks about the rich and camels through the eyes of needles, he assures us that all things are possible with God. Anyway, only you know which category fits you better today. God help me, so do I.

But you see the problem, right? If those who are happy and healthy and radiant are “blessed,” what does that say about those who are suffering? So it’s clear that we’ve gotten all mixed up about what it means to be “blessed” in the first place. I think blessing has less to do with comfort and more to do with practice.

When I was 10 I began learning to play the cornet, and I took to it right away. I enjoyed practicing, but I was such a natural that I didn’t need to practice all that much; I could still shine. A couple years later I asked my parents to sign me up for piano lessons. Those were much harder and demanded more practice than I wanted to give, so instead of working harder at practicing the piano, I quit. But those two situations have something in common: I had a choice to practice or not. And my parents had a choice: they could afford to rent me a cornet and to pay for my piano lessons. We weren’t rich, but we definitely weren’t the blessed poor that Jesus talks about.

So stick with me here … not all practice is a matter of choice. When your children are hungry, you don’t get to quit. If you can find someone willing to hire you, you take on the practice of a second job.

When your children are in danger, you don’t get to quit. If the danger is bad enough, you’ll take them and flee to a place you pray will be safer. You take on the practice of pilgrimage, hoping to find a new life as you place survival above fear.

When your loved one dies, you don’t get to quit. You have no choice but to grieve. You can let it destroy you, or you can take on the difficult practice of mourning.

Jesus tells us that people in such situations are already close to God, because all of their practices are born of necessity. When we cannot provide for ourselves, we can only ask God to help. And that lack, says Jesus, is a blessed state, rather than the comfort we long for. When you’re poor, hungry, weeping, despised: well, you have no choice but to practice trust in God. There’s nothing else left to do. But when you’re rich, well-fed, laughing, and admired, well, you will probably fall into the trap of believing you built that all by yourself. I know I do. It’s not that God doesn’t want us to be happy and healthy. But Jesus warns us that when we get too comfortable it puts us in danger, because it puts other people in danger from us.

A college student once told me that as a child he used to go to church with his grandmother, and he had loved those times. But he stopped going. “Why?” I asked. “What about your grandmother’s church doesn’t fit you anymore?”

He thought for a moment. “Oh, it still fits,” he said. “I’m still a Christian, for sure. It’s just that I don’t need church anymore.”

Go easy on the guy. Nobody ever told him that Christianity is not a solo sport, or that he’ll need a community when pain and hardship finally land in his lap. In the meantime, woe to this student in all his comfort! He’s missing out—and others are missing out on him.

For those of us who in this moment are living more comfortable lives—and I am most certainly one of these—where does our hope lie? It lies in community and in practice. When we have more money, more time, more energy than we need, directing it toward community will strengthen us for the hard times that will inevitably come our way. And it’ll help keep us from unthinkingly victimizing others with our privilege.

But for the comfortable, the burden of choice is on us. Christianity is a funny religion—nobody’s going to force us to practice. If we were Muslims, we’d be practicing the Five Pillars of Islam: faith, prayer, charity, fasting, and pilgrimage. You can’t be a Muslim without them, and I do appreciate the earnestness and rigor that comes with Islam. Christianity has practices too, of course, including all of the above. We just don’t decree that any of them are absolutely required for you to continue being a Christian.

Yet if the church isn’t at least offering opportunities to practice, then we’re not doing our job. (And yes, I mean “us,” as in “everyone here,” not just “the clergy.”) So we do offer such opportunities. And beginning in a few weeks, we’ll offer a specific opportunity at Good Shepherd. I want to invite all of you to come practice our upcoming formation series, “The Way of Love: Practices for a Jesus-Centered Life.” It’ll be held at 9:00 each week beginning March 10—and yes, there will be childcare! We’ll break into small groups to learn together about seven different categories of Christian practice, summed up in seven easy-to-remember words: Turn, Learn, Pray, Worship, Bless, Go, Rest. I hope that those of us who take on this weekly practice of a slightly busier Sunday morning will come away with new practices, with rooted trust, and with deepened friendships.

On Saturday, April 6, we’ll have an extra session that will specifically be intergenerational, and we’ll share it with the families whose children are preparing for baptism at the Great Vigil of Easter. On that day we’ll be an entire church family learning about these practices together.

Please pre-register, because we want to be intentional about dividing people into smaller learning groups. The form is on the back of your service leaflet. Or you can register online through the link in our weekly email.

When we practice, individually and together, our faith grows. When we practice, we don’t settle for the comfort of easy answers or unearned confidence. Belief in God is trust in God, and trust takes practice. Let’s practice together. And then, when hardships come along—and they will—we’ll be better suited to bless God and one another.

In the meantime, when something wonderful happens in your life, do thank God for it. But if you post it on Instagram, try a hashtag other than “blessed.” Then look for the ones Jesus tells us are blessed … and bless them with your friendship, your advocacy, and your humility. Amen.

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